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I Dated Two Friends at the Same Time and This Is What Happened
Dating more than one guy at a time is definitely a confidence booster, but it's also hard work (oh, life is so tough, right?). We've rounded up a few ladies. 29 Mar I normally Internet stalk my online dating connections pretty thoroughly. But life had gotten busy, and for a few days I was swiping right on Coffee Meets Bagel without my normal due diligence. I found myself casually texting with two guys. Both seemed nice, but I was having trouble keeping them straight. Thats Fine. Its your decision to tell each other about this. If you want my advice. Dont tell anyone. Let's have some fun. Different people will think different things Like here in India, a girl would be considered as a whore and if the two best.
Community Links Members List. Dating 2 Guys who are friends! Here's the story; I met guy 1 about 2 months ago. He was burned in his last relationship so he says he wants to take it slow with me. No probelm for me - I'm having a great time!
I M DATING TWO GUYS
I met guy 2 about 2 years ago and we had only 3 or 4 dates and stopped seeing each other. He had just gotten divorced after 20 years so I figured he just wasn't ready and that's okay, no hard feelings. He resurfaced in December before I met Guy 2 and finally asked me out after I had been seeing Guy 2 for about 2 weeks.
Bear with me here I have been seeing both of them but only slept with Guy 1 and really only had about 4 dates with Guy 2. Guy 1 knows that I was dating someone else and when we were out the other night, he saw the name of Guy 2 on my phone and low and behold - it is his very good friend!!!
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Guy 2 actually handled it pretty well and has agreed to let me tell Guy 2 myself - which I'm doing tomorrow because we already have plans to see each other. Guy 2 has said that "we'll figure this out, Guy 2 and I are going to be fine, you did nothing wrong" He's saying all the right stuff but he's not professing his love to me or anything and out of respect for his friend, we have not talked since the other night but he told me to let him know after I've told Guy 2. What can I say to Guy 2 tomorrow, to let him know that I'd rather be with him, without it getting back to his friend and without even knowing if I have the choice because he may tell me he's not interested anyway?
Thanks for any advice on what to say to Guy 2 without hurting either one of them! Share Share this post on Digg Del. First, dont hedge your bets with people.
If you like one more than the other, then youre going to have to take the very real risk of losing both by making this decision. You shouldnt waffle back and forth because you dont want to burn any bridges, its unfair to all 3 of you. The fact that theyre friends shouldnt be Dating Two Guys Who Are Best Friends big deal, but you really cant drag this out anymore at all.
You have to make a decision, and understand that youre going to be stuck with it. If you dont, then both of them could decide youre playing games and be done with you. And it doesnt matter who it gets back to, because like I said - you cant hedge your bets with people.
I'm in a real big pickle. Found out I'm dating two best friends
Tell the other person you think theyre a good person, but you feel more chemistry with the other person and dont want to waste his time. Thats a really honest thing to do, and he'll have a lot more respect for you. Remember, if you BS or make up excuses, he's surely going to tell his buddy, which just makes you look bad.
Thanks for the advice and I agree - honesty is the best policy and I would never lie to either one of them. I'm afraid when I tell Guy 2 that I have been intimate with his friend for 2 months, he won't want to see me anymore anyway, even if I do tell him that I see potential with him and would like to continue to date him.
This relationship was quite a few years ago and that was the only time that's happened. Pin It on Pinterest. I found out that they both went to the same small college in Kentucky. Soooo, you might very well just loose em both and move on to a new batch of hopefuls. The truth is that I know I am a bit liberal.
What can I say to let him know that I see long-term potential with him and not the other, without hurting either one of their feelings? Remember, I'm not even sure how this guy feels about me yet Guy 1 was burned in his last relationship.
He is getting burned again. Break up with guy 1 and spare him. After getting burned before, he doesn't deserve this now. He deserves someone that will be true to him.
A side note, I can't keep your chronology straight. I think you say guy 2 in place you meant guy 1 and vice versa. Last edited by Dexter Morgan; 13th March at 6: I'm not certain which guy said what.
I would never do it, but I just passed a guy I had been dating onto a friend of mine, but we're not super close either, so the likelihood of me seeing them together often is slim. Sleeping with two men at once makes you a slut. She knows that he was into me, but I don't think it matters to her. Sign up here to get the latest news, updates and special offers delivered directly to your inbox.
For that matter, I'm not even certain what more info asking.
So, is anything you wrote "code" for who has a bigger unit? So that doesn't mean anything. I'm gonna hit you with the brutal truth I know it's an awful quote, but neither of them are that invested into you and your really not that invested either. Soooo, you might very well just loose em both and move on to a new batch of hopefuls. If you did get involved in a serious relationship with either of them, do you really want to be hangin with em both together and gee.
Originally Posted by michelangelo. This is the first time I've ever done this - what a blast!! Thanks all - you're awesome and some of you are hilarious. Seriously, I am a good person, always have been and always will be honest with everyone I know, and no, I have not been using code - LOL!
I like both of them but I guess, yeah, I was hoping that I could figure out a way to date at least 1 of them. I know, I know, I will probably lose them both. Guys and girlsI know the truth is "Bros before Hoes: If you're interested to see how this turns out, visit on Sunday because that's when I'll post. Sorry, but this is the worst post I have ever read in so many ways. Originally Posted by Dexter Morgan. Sorry, your post was confusing Dating Two Guys Who Are Best Friends I think you misplaced 1 and 2 at certain points, but nonetheless: Men are not like women, to fight and hiss.
They'll say "Oh, sure, no problem," but they'll walk away without telling you why. It sounds like your Dating Two Guys Who Are Best Friends is set on guy 1, with whom you've slept, so let the other guy know that he's out of the picture and let your preferred guy know the same thing.
Regarding NOT hurting them, you can't control somebody's feelings.
You can't prevent somebody from being hurt if you're honest. Your job is to be fair and honest, not to invent scenarios that would prevent pain to people who cherish unrealistic expectations about you. Just stop feeding their expectations the moment you know there should be none. Thread Tools Show Printable Version. All times are GMT The time now is 6: The suggestions and advice offered on this web article source are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. Contact Us - LoveShack. Add Thread to del. Dating Dating, courting, or going steady? Things not working out the way you had hoped? Stand up on your soap box and let us know what's going on! Originally Posted by michelangelo So, is anything you wrote "code" for who has a bigger unit?
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